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By: chris

chris — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 21:03:24 +0000

Nathan,

I am so very sorry for you.
The mothers are treated like GODS in ohio courts and the state will take up her fight against you the father. You cannt fight city hall. Just save everything, all the court papers, the photos, the RTS birthday, christmas cards. Record the phone calls. Someday when they are older tell them it was her and you have proof.
You should get help, this is much like a lost, a death, of a child.
So sorry, remember not all women evil. But no more kids to much risk.

By: chris

chris — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 20:55:46 +0000

My story starts 15 years ago. Ex divorced my while preg. for youngest son. Other son is now about 17. During divorce no visitation, after supervised visits during weekday work hours. I later found out the judge hated my lawyer. That lawyer died in prison, but thats a sidebar. Well I got a another lawyer, proved myself a worthy father and got standard visits. Then a cycle of abuse charges; mental, physical and sexual. Of course, visit cut-off. Each time it took money, lawyers, and time to fight off charges and restore visits. I had to file a motion so ex would use my last name for sons not her former name. Every time I saw my sons, it was always on my mind when will I see them again and what will I be charged with. This went on until she had her current husband beat the youngest, then she lied to the police. Arrested at gun point handcuffed and lead down the sidewalk in front of my house. Well, I got that charge dismissed. Nobody cared she lied, its save the children, mommy never worry.
I got visit restore. Then about a year after the arrest, another civil charge. That is when I learned about ex-parte orders, wow my voice not even heard in court. More lost time with sons, more lawyers to get visit restored. During the first visit after that last charge, the ex called and said “If you ever see them again I will have your chicy baby arrest” she was referring to my wife. Well, enough is enough, kids are being put through hell and being a target parent is no fun.
Now after 10 years, ex lets me see my sons.
Oldest son is very anger, felt I abandoned him.
Youngest son is in juvy system now. Ex cannt deal with him. For the last 2 months I have him every weekend. Wow something I thought would never happen. He is a good kid, we have no problems. No we are not bonded by having the enemy, I do not run their mother down.
My wife has anxiety problems from this severe PAS.
I have been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
The ex still PA, I only get to see them because she cannt control them.
I WAS NEVER NEVER NEVER LATE ON SUPPORT PAYMENTS.
First thing I learned state enforce support and fights against father for visitation.
My dear sweet wife, of 14 years, did not have to ask me twice if I wanted any more kids.

The laws, the courts, the expert, the lawyers its all about keeping the cases going and bleeding the father dry.

By: Nathan

Nathan — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 00:03:17 +0000

I am a father in ohio and reasonally just split up, I found out my wife was cheating on me and it hurt but not as much as keeping my son from me. Its been two weeks since I have seen my son and I really cannot function without him I never knew that the love for a human could be so strong. After i found out about the cheating I was going to my pastor to discuss it with him and while I was gone she went to police and made a bunch of false statements so I got arrested I have never been arrested and a really good dad. Now she is keeping my son from me. PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN HELP CONTACT ME AT Nathan.moore74@yahoo.com

By: michigan divorce laws

michigan divorce laws — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 02:32:02 +0000

i dont like the idea of parentectomy..it’s alienation of you child. after divorce, children must be properly taken care of. abandoning the child because the court cannot decide to whoever custody he/she shall stay. divorce doesnt mean that you’re free from responsibilities, in fact, this the period that you should make extra effort to let your children know about the state of your marriage.

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By: Robert Gartner

Robert Gartner — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 19:36:52 +0000

Here is a lawyer that cares and is very aware of the evils of destroying a child to get to the other parent.

By: Michael Doherty

Michael Doherty — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 14:07:50 +0000

Dear Mr. Mues:

Your comments and reference to Dr. Williams article were most helpful! I had read the Williams address some time ago, but not as thoroughly as you have, so thanks for renewing my interest in it.

I have posted your blog on our Children’s Rights Council of Illinois Facebook page and I will share it with some of our members here.

Have you contact with the Children’s Rights Council chapters in Ohio? They are very motivated and have done some good work there.

Thanks again for your information!

Sincerely,

Michael Doherty, Chair, The Children’s Rights Council of Illinois

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