Avoid Post Divorce Disputes – Don’t Forget To Include Social Media Clause in Your Prenuptial Agreement!
In the past, we’ve written multiple articles relating to social media. I have linked to some of them at the end of this article. Now, I would like to focus on an issue that may evolve during a marriage and can expand exponentially after a divorce; social media disputes between couples. This type of ugly dispute has led many in the legal world to conclude that some couples need a “social media clause” in their prenuptial agreement (s).
If you’re connected to the world via social media, you’ve seen this happen. Let’s say a mid-30’s married couple has a nasty fallout ending in a divorce. You’re friends with both of these individuals on Facebook, follow them on Twitter, and maybe follow them on Instagram as well. After their divorce, things get even nastier. Now, instead of fighting amongst themselves in private and attempting to resolve issues, they’re broadcasting these “differences” on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. These problems can be about anything, even complaining about child splitting time, each other’s parenting skills, or even extending into alimony or child support.
In … Read More... “Social Media In Divorce – Prenuptial Agreement Provision”
An Interview with Mr. Cris Shale relative to his thoughts Post-Bankruptcy/Divorce
Valuable Advice For Others Facing The Same Bankruptcy Dilemma Post-Divorce
Several years ago, I posted an article to the Ohio Family Law Blog about my son and one of my clients who had both elected to file a Bankruptcy proceeding following a divorce and following a marital residence being “upside down” with the total mortgage liability. In layman’s terms, the value of the marital residence, as appraised, was way below the mortgage indebtedness associated with the home. Cris, with a high child support obligation and other associated bills, could not afford to keep the mortgage current on his former marital residence. So, he sought counsel and filed a Chapter 7 Bankruptcy.
Before meeting with Cris, I sent to him several questions to stimulate our Bankruptcy discussion:
- Were there any negative outcomes or effects from taking the Bankruptcy?
- Were there any positive outcomes or effects from taking the Bankruptcy?
- What advice would you offer to others contemplating a Bankruptcy action?
- If you had the same set of facts today, would you again take the Bankruptcy?
- What steps have you taken to re-establish credit and improve your credit score?
Question 1: … Read More... “Bankruptcy In Post-Divorce: Hire An Attorney Before You File!”
The Role FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) Plays Out In Daily and Family Life
Technology has created a glut of new words and expressions. It also has “repurposed” old words; a mouse is no longer just a rodent in my basement. A crash is not a vehicular accident, a chip is not just used for scooping up onion dip and a pad is not just a monthly required feminine product.
Electronic communication has also introduced us to a wave of new acronyms. LOL, ROFL, OMG, BRB were sprinkled through our e-mail and now are a standard in texting. Those initialisms (another new word I recently learned) have entered into our face to face conversations and are a part of our lexicon. Since I don’t Tweet, Snap, or Facebook, I admit I am lagging in current vocabulary updates.
Then an acquaintance confided she attends church weekly because she has FOMO. For those of you who are, like me, lagging in social media jargon, I will decode. FOMO refers to “Fear of Missing Out”. It is used most frequently by teenagers posting on social media in response to social events. For example, “I am going to Shania’s party even if I … Read More... “FOMO: Does it Impact Decisions to File for Divorce?”
If a Divorce is on Your New Year’s Resolution List, Consider this First…
Seven Tips for Dealing with Family Issues During the Holidays from Texas Divorce Attorney Richard C. Price
I was pondering a list of various topics for this blog article. I wanted to publish a strong blog article to start 2015. I started a couple and even finished one that wasn’t honestly that memorable. So I decided to hold that one in the “bank” for another less important time of the year. The start of any new year is an obvious time for reflection and to take an inventory of our blessings and shortcomings.
To start the year, I wanted to post an article encouraging people experiencing marital problems to take certain steps before going the divorce route. I drilled into the extensive archive of blog articles written by my colleague and acclaimed Texas lawyer, Dick Price, for inspiration. Success! I found the article below which he has graciously granted permission for me to repost from his Divorce and Family Law in Tarrant County, Texas, blog at http://dick-price.blogspot.com/ It was originally posted on January 2, 2008. While initially geared towards divorced or separated families, his tips are equally … Read More... “Divorce on Your New Year’s Resolution List?”
What Happens in Ohio if a Divorcee Dies Before Transferring Property or Assets as Divorce Court Ordered?
How Assets are to be Divided After the Passing of a Spouse During the Divorce Decree
The question was recently posed to me as to what happens if, after a valid and enforceable Decree of Divorce, Dissolution or Legal Separation is filed, one of the spouses or ex-spouses dies before the division of assets can be fully completed. Does the ex-spouse or spouse still retain an interest in an asset that has been released by the Court Order? Two possible scenarios may arise, and each will be addressed separately.
Husband Passes First:
Let’s address the situation when the husband passes first. What about those assets in which wife released or no longer had any interest, yet she remains either a beneficiary or a joint survivorship owner when husband dies? By operation of law, you would think that those assets would pass to her regardless of the Court Decree, but a quick look to Ohio statutory law helps answer this question. With respect to joint and survivorship real property, Ohio Revised Code specifically states that if a husband and wife own real estate … Read More... “Divorce Assets In Ohio – Survivorship Benefits For Spouse”
Recent Study Reveals Increased Length In Deployments Will Increase The Risk Of Military Divorce
A recent study conducted by the RAND Corporation with the Department of Defense sponsorship found that increased length in deployments will increase the risk of divorce. The study goes into detail regarding marriages originating prior to and after the September 11, 2001, attacks. The study found that couples who married prior to the attacks and had one of the spouses deployed to Iraq or Afghanistan were over 20% more likely to divorce than couples who married after the September 11 attacks. The researchers conducting this study believed that this was likely due to the fact that couples who married after the attacks were better equipped to deal with the challenges of war.
Another study conducted in 2011 found that military divorce rates overall had an uptick from what they had been in the past. This study found that from 2000-2011 the enlisted military divorce rate increased drastically from 2.9% to 4.2%, edging out the civilian rate of divorce. A San Diego divorce attorney opined that the increased rate is caused most likely by the low age of most military members and the lack of emotional … Read More... “Military Divorce Rate Climbs – Are Multiple Deployments at Fault?”
High Conflict Divorce Tied With High Conflict Personalities According To Therapists
On March 24th, 2014, I traveled from Dayton, Ohio to Mason, Ohio to interview Brenda Patton, Therapist, Parenting Coordinator, and Mediator for The Counseling and Cooperative Parenting Center of Ohio, LLC, also known as “CCPC – Ohio”. Initially, I was interested in interviewing a spokesperson of this Parenting Center as they were a “private” entity providing supervised visitation or supervised parenting time for families in Montgomery, Warren, and Hamilton Counties. When I learned that the service of supervised visitation had been discontinued in July 2013, I explored other topics of interest. When Ms. Patton advised me that the Center was interested in working with “high conflict” divorce matters, my interest was piqued.
What is a “high conflict” divorce matter? Ms. Patton defined it as being cases that have a “revolving door” relationship with the Domestic Relations Courts. They are the cases that are never resolved or settled. Months and/or years after divorce has been finalized, the parties are still returning to Court to resolve unsettled issues relating to support, visitation, selection of schools, selection of treating physicians, payment of medical expenses, payment of extracurricular expenses, etc. These cases often … Read More... “Divorce: Addressing High Conflict Cases – Tips and Strategies”