Mother’s Day Tips for Newly Divorced Moms

Embracing Change on Mother’s Day After Divorce

Mother’s Day is a day for moms and their children to celebrate the special bond that they share. However, if you are a mom who is recently separated or divorced, Mother’s Day after divorce may feel different from past celebrations. Even if you know terminating the marriage was the best for all, you may still feel emotions of sadness, guilt or loneliness.

If you are experiencing any of these negative emotions, it is beneficial to acknowledge these feelings rather than ignore them or try to sweep them under the rug. Give yourself permission to feel whatever you feel and allow yourself to recognize these emotions to start the process of moving on.

Think of it as an opportunity to establish new traditions that will make Mother’s Day after divorce a meaningful celebration for both you and your children. Unless your children are old enough to plan things for you, you are probably alone in making it a special day for you all. This is not a sad time but a great opportunity to move on and create meaningful memories.

Creating New Traditions With Your Children

Perhaps choose a new activity to do together. Maybe in the past you always went to a favorite restaurant, or the kids made you breakfast in bed. Talk to your children about doing something different that you would all enjoy doing together. Maybe planning a picnic, or a trip to the zoo, or planting flowers together could be a fun new tradition. Consider an outdoor adventure such as going biking or hiking or maybe planning a game night or movie night.

Another thought might be to get together with another single mom and her children. You could benefit from another adult’s company and your children might enjoy being with other children.

Although communication with your ex is always crucial when co-parenting, holidays including Mother’s Day or Father’s Day may require extra flexibility. Letting your ex know your expectations for the day is important so that there are no hard feelings or misunderstandings.

Include Others Who Matter

As they say, “it takes a village to raise a child”, so don’t forget about the other important women in your child’s life. Maybe it is a grandmother or a stepmom who also plays an important role in your child’s life. By recognizing them it helps your child understand how important they are, and that you value those who play a big role in theirlife and make your child feel loved.

I previously wrote a blog article about the importance of other women in your child’s life and the recognition they deserve on Mother’s Day. Click here to read it.

Final Thoughts on Celebrating Mother’s Day After Divorce

Last but not least, you need to prioritize self-care. Moms often focus their energy on taking care of others, and don’t allow time for themselves. Take a little time on Mother’s Day to do something special for yourself by taking time to do something just for you. Get a manicure or a massage, go for a walk, indulge in a special treat or whatever makes you happy.

By taking care of yourself and planning a day with something you and your children will all enjoy, you can make Mother’s Day after divorce, the special day it was meant to be. Creating wonderful memories is what it is all about for both you and your children.

Don’t forget that Father’s Day will be here on June 15th. Working together with him on Mother’s Day hopefully will result in reciprocation for Dad on his special day.

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